Some information; i am a male during my very early 20s. Ask Meta Filter

Some information; i am a male during my very early 20s. Ask Meta Filter

My buddy, we are able to phone her Jill, may be the age that is same. Our company is both pupils, neither of us is really a virgin or completely inexperienced with dealing with the other sex.

Jill split up with a fairly longterm boyfriend about 3ish weeks hence. Our company is both buddies, not really close friends needless to say but our company is pretty close. In the last 4 months we’ve frequently been spending some time going out alone.

And this is actually the kicker, I REALLY DO n’t need up to now this girl or enter into any type of “boyfriend gf” form of arrangement. The things I do wish to accomplish is involve some type of casual hook up(s) together with her. I do not actually want to state friends with benefits(Gah, We hate that term) but that’s pretty near to the things I are thinking about. We are often alone together, often bored, and often horny as I said before. I really couldn’t see this going beyond making down plus some groping/manual stimulation therefore it is in contrast to we might be getting super anyway that is intimate. I would also be cool with it being a single time experience, but how can we get from sitting here speaking with making down?

Only problems are, (1) how do you initiate this? I’ve never ever been someone to have any kind of random hook ups before therefore I really concept of. (2) let’s say she claims no? I would personallyn’t be offended if she rejects me personally, hell, I would personallyn’t be offended if she informs me i am gross but i must say i wish to avoid harming our relationship while the risk of her telling all our shared buddies that I attempted to place the techniques on her(gossip does bypass, unfortuitously ). Continue reading “Some information; i am a male during my very early 20s. Ask Meta Filter”